Sequential Psychotherapy™

 

Hello and a warm welcome to the website, I’m Sebastian Eastwood, a psychotherapist in full-time private practice in Bristol. I developed Sequential Psychotherapy because I passionately believe that well-structured, well-informed therapy can have a profoundly positive effective on people’s lives. Based on the most up-to-date neuroscience and psychology research, Sequential Psychotherapy is a simple step-by-step process for resolving a wide range of troubling symptoms and problems.

 

 

If you're struggling with an issue that feels out of control, or you've failed to get the results you wanted to see in other therapies, I put together this website to explain how Sequential Psychotherapy can help. To find out more, scroll down or click here to find out how to get the most out of the website.

Sebastian Eastwood BA(Hons), DipHyp, MSEPI, MIAEBP

Portrait Image of Seb Eastwood, a psychotherapist in Bristol who developed Sequential Psychotherapy - a new model for resolving symptoms.

 

 

To help make sense of the issues you've been experiencing I've aimed to explain how Sequential Psychotherapy works in a simple and engaging way. To get the most out of the website keep scrolling down or, for the best experience, use the 'jump' links at the end of each section.

 

 

If you don't feel like exploring all the content you can easily jump to different sections using the drop-down menu in the 'Home' tab on the menu bar at the top of the page.

 

 

If you're keen to know how Sequential Psychotherapy can help you, scroll down or click here and we'll begin. Enjoy!

How to use the website...

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Start with the video...

Can you explain how it works in simple terms?

 

 

Sure. Think of your brain as like a big old bundle of wires. Within this bundle are lots of interconnected circuits. The way these circuits relate to each other changes throughout your lifetime as a result of your life experiences.

 

 

For example, when you are born you don't have a 'circuit' for how to ride a bike. You have to create the circuit through experience. In a similar way, symptoms and problems can develop, either as a direct or indirect result of your experiences.

 

 

In Sequential Psychotherapy we work in a systematic way with the  symptom-generating circuits by engaging in new experiences that enable them to 'rewire' and cease causing you problems. Next

So, what's causing my symptoms?

There are many potential causes of symptoms and problems. As we've just seen in the section above, your brain wiring is affected by different experiences. The job of your brain is to keep you safe, so it perpetually adapts to what it learns. Over time we evolved three different 'processing systems' to help keep us safe and facilitate our survival:

  • The Neocortex - Thought Processes
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  • The Limbic System - Social and Emotional Processes
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  • The Brain Stem - Bodily Processes

 

 

Each of your brain's processing systems is responsible for a different survival function. Before we look at how they are wired together, let's explore each one in turn and see what it does. Next

 

Image of the human brain divided into it's the main evolutionary processing systems: the neocortex, the limbic system, and the brain stem.

The Brain Stem

 

 

 

Image of the human brain with the brain stem highlighted The Brain Stem is the oldest part of your brain. It oversees numerous bodily processes. It is responsible for your instinctive physical reactions, such as the startle response, and your bodies innate fight, flight, or freeze survival response. Exposure to traumatic experiences can cause the brain stem to get stuck in a 'stress-loop'. According to Dr Robert Scaer MD, an expert in the field of traumatology, "Trauma is defined as any negative life event in a relative state of helplessness". Chronic stress can occur when the brain stem doesn't receive the necessary feedback it requires to turn off its instinctive stress response. Next

The Limbic System

 

 

 

Image of the human brain with the Limbic System highlightedThe Limbic System evolved to facilitate social behaviour. It promotes bonding and attachment (i.e. relationships) through emotional processes and aims to protect you from social and emotional threats. Through emotional experiences the limbic system establishes unconscious rules - known as schemas - that enable you to instinctively navigate social situations in order to meet your emotional needs. Symptoms and problems develop at the level of the Limbic System when the instinctive actions elicited by these unconscious rules are no longer adaptive and thus begin to do more harm than good. Next

The Neocortex

 

 

 

Image of the human brain with the Neocortex highlightThe Neocortex is the newest part of your brain. It facilitates conscious thought and many intellectual processes such as reason and logic. It enables you to have an imagination, through which you can consider  potential future events and thereby prevent or protect yourself from potential future threats. Symptoms and problems can develop at the level of the neocortex as a result of stress-inducing ruminations and attributional errors, sometimes referred to as cognitive distortions. Issues can also arise through auto-suggestion; a powerful phenomenon in which the brain and body produce effects on the basis of beliefs. Next

Bottom-Up / Top-Down Control

Each of your brain's evolutionary survival systems can produce a wide variety of symptoms and problems through a process known as bottom-up / top-down control.

Bottom-up / top-down control refers to the way in which these systems are wired together and therefore influence each other.

 

 

For example, your Brain Stem receives information from your body through the nervous system and sends it up to your higher brain regions - the Limbic System and Neocortex - converting it into emotions and thoughts. Similarly, your higher brain regions can send information down to your Brain Stem, where it gets converted into bodily sensations and actions. Depending on the kind of experiences you've had and how they've affected you, this system can become symptom-generating or symptom-maintaining. Next

Image of bottom-up / top-down control - a phenomenon in which your three major brain regions connect to, and influence each other.

I get how therapy can help with emotional things, but physical symptoms too?!

 

 

 

Absolutely. As we've just seen, the human brain is a powerful piece of kit! It connects to every area of your body through a complex network of systems. The Brain Stem, which is the oldest part of your brain, sits at the base of your brain and connects to your spinal column. Nerves from around your body converge at the spinal column, which acts as an information pathway to your brain. Your brain receives information from the afferent nerves and sends information through the efferent nerves - think of it like a road in which traffic is heading in both directions. Through this network your brain stem monitors and controls all of the bodily systems you can see on the chart below.

Image of the human body showing the interconnected nature of the brain, spinal column, and nervous system

Your brain stem constantly monitors your internal and external environment and creates changes in these bodily systems to meet your survival needs. One of the biggest changes that can occur in your body happens when a significant stressor triggers a fight, flight, or freeze response. Every single one of these bodily systems is affected during a stress response.

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The Fight, Flight, or Freeze Response

 

The fight, flight, or freeze response is characterised by massive biochemical changes in your brain and body. Your autonomic nervous system switches from parasympathetic (resting, relaxing, healing, digesting) mode, to sympathetic (fight, flight, alert, on guard) mode, and a flood of hormones and neurotransmitters such as cortisol and adrenaline prepare your body for intense action. This triggers a cascade of physiological changes such as increased heart and respiration rate, changes in muscle tone and blood pressure, and pupil dilation. This automatic instinctive response also causes a depression in your immune system, digestive system, excretory system, and reproductive system. Next

Image of a cat and dog in a confrontation. You can easily see the significant effect of the stress response on our organism.

What the heck is a freeze response?

 

 

 

The 'freeze' response is an automatic response of the nervous system that is triggered when a stressor or threat cannot be successfully attacked or escaped from. In certain animal species the freeze state involves tonic immobility, a temporary condition that resembles rigor mortis. This counter-intuitive defense mechanism is adaptive because it not only facilitates a less painful death, but many predators require the thrill of the chase to arouse their instinct to kill.

 

 

For humans, who have more complex brains, the freeze state doesn't necessarily involve physical paralysis, though it might. More commonly the freeze response involves a number of physiological, emotional, or psychological effects such as muscle tension, fatigue, emotional numbness, a sense of detachment, obsessive thinking or mental blankness. Through the process of bottom-up / top-down control, your innate fight, flight, freeze response doesn't just affect you physically, it also affects your emotional state, thoughts patterns, perceptions, expectations, and memory systems. Next

Life Problems = Stress...

 

 

A whole host of life problems can trigger a stress response in you, such as:

 

  • Major Life Changes
  • Bereavement
  • Relationship / Family Problems
  • Financial Problems
  • Work Pressures
  • Upbringing / Parental Relations Issues (Attachment Issues)
  • Damage to Reputation
  • Low Self-Esteem / Low Self Worth
  • Feelings of Guilt or Shame
  • Sexual Problems
  • Traumatic Experiences (Accidents, Abuse, Assaults, Natural Disasters, Etc.)
  • Bullying or Conflict
  • Loneliness or Lack of Purpose
  • Injury & Illness
  • Etc.

 

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...and Stress = Symptoms.

 

 

 

FIGHT

 

  • Anger
  • Aggression
  • Antisocial Behaviour
  • Paranoia
  • PTSD
  • OCD
  • Relationship Issues
  • Attachment Issues
  • Reactivity / Impulsivity
  • Dominance or Control Issues

 

 

FLIGHT

 

  • Anxiety
  • Addictions
  • Phobias
  • PTSD
  • OCD
  • Relationship Issues
  • Attachment Issues
  • Social Anxiety
  • Compulsive Eating
  • Avoidance
  • Suicide
  • Procrastination

 

FREEZE

 

  • Depression
  • Dissociation
  • Chronic Pain
  • PTSD
  • OCD
  • Chronic Fatigue Syndrome
  • Attachment Issues
  • Myalgic Encephalopathy (ME)
  • Post Viral Fatigue Syndrome
  • Low Self-Esteem
  • Obsessions (Pure 'O')

 

GENERAL STRESS

 

  • Bruxism (Teeth Grinding)
  • Insomnia
  • Nightmares & Night Terrors
  • Relationship Issues
  • Weight Issues
  • High Desire For Control
  • Hypochondria (Health Anxiety)
  • Anxiety / Panic Attacks
  • Impulse Control Disorders
  • Eating Disorders
  • Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS)
  • Various Sexual Problems
  • And many more...

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I booked an appointment with Seb to help me deal with exam stress and the effect it was having on my M.E. I've not only passed all my exams, I no longer have any symptoms of M.E.! I really enjoyed working with Seb and would highly recommend him to anyone looking for someone to help. Having now completed my sessions I feel like a stronger version of my old self. Life is a whole lot nicer.

 

L.M. - Exam Nerves & M.E.

Here's the cool thing...

 

 

Sequential Psychotherapy is a non-pathologizing therapy, which means it doesn't view your symptoms as 'irrational', 'disordered', or even 'dysfunctional'. It recognises that - beyond certain genetic and medical complications - many apparently 'disorganised' forms of human behaviour have a coherent underlying logic to them that can be understood in terms of our evolutionary biology. Other than for explanatory reasons, Sequential Psychotherapy isn't the least bit interested in 'labeling' you. Next

What it all comes down to is this:

The things you find stressful, your ability to tolerate, manage, or resolve stress, and your general stress levels, are all determined by your brain’s processing systems and how they’ve been conditioned by your unique life experiences.

 

 

Sequential Psychotherapy is a practical step-by-step process for locating, understanding, and resolving stressors and systematically putting you back in control. Next

Check the checklist:

 

 

Scroll down and read through the list below. If you answer 'Yes' to one or more of the following questions it's a good sign that Sequential Psychotherapy will benefit you:

  • Do you worry a lot?
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  • Do you ever feel unlovable, like a failure, or inferior to others?
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  • Do you ever feel that there's something inside you that's out of control?
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  • Are you often irritable or quick to anger?
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  • Do you procrastinate more than you would like to?
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  • Do you often struggle to make a decision or take action?
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  • Do you struggle with low self-esteem or low self-worth?
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  • Do you feel unfulfilled or struggle to feel content or happy in life?
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  • Do you grind your teeth during the day or at night in your sleep?
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  • Are there certain situations, such as group activities, being alone, or being the centre of attention, that you feel compelled to avoid?
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  • Do thoughts / worries / concerns keep you awake at night?
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  • Do you bite your nails, sometimes to the degree that they become sore?

 

  • Do you habitually over-react or under-react to certain specific situations without knowing why?
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  • Do you experience physical symptoms, such as aches, pains, tingling, fatigue, muscle spasms, or irritable bowls, that medical practitioners can find no physical cause for?
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  • Do you ever experience repetitive thoughts or intrusive thoughts that are distressing, such as the thought of randomly hurting a loved one or stranger?
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  • Do you experience significant issues with your weight or body-image?
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  • Do you have difficulties socializing or making friends?
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  • Do you tend to isolate yourself from people, preferring to be alone?
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  • Are you experiencing brain-fog, memory issues, difficulty focusing, or a sense of detachment from reality?
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  • Do you ever feel like an impostor, like you're playing a role (and perhaps worry that one day you'll be found out)?
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  • Do you find yourself repeating a certain behaviour even though you know you don't want to do it?
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  • Do you find that your relationships always end in a similar pattern?
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  • Do you often worry about how you're perceived by others?
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  • Do you feel a strong sense of responsibility for making others happy or preventing them from being sad or angry?
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  • Do you ever feel on edge for no apparent reason?
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  • Is there a part of you that wishes you'd had a better relationship with your parents?
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  • Were either of your parents emotionally unavailable or noticeably cold and unaffectionate towards you?
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  • Were either of your parents ever strongly critical or dismissive of you?
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  • Were either of your parents ever neglectful of you, perhaps forgetting to pick you up or forgetting your birthdays or other important occasions?
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  • Are you prone to significant mood swings?
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  • Do you have a certain behaviour or ritual that you have to perform in order to feel OK?
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  • Do you have difficulty experiencing happiness or feeling content in life?
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  • Do you feel like you are not living to your full potential but don't understand what's holding you back?
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  • Are there certain things about your character or your appearance that you really don't like?
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  • Do you feel empty or depressed when you're not getting attention?
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  • Do you ever intentionally hurt yourself?
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  • Do you ever feel trapped or suffocated by certain situations that don't seem to bother other people?
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  • Are there things in your past that you feel you haven't overcome yet?
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  • Do you find that you often feel down, depressed, miserable, hopeless, or helpless?
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  • Have alcohol, drugs, gambling, spending, pornography, gaming, or exercising become a major crutch in your life to the point that it's become a problem?
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  • Do you go to great lengths to avoid failure, rejection, or confrontation, such as avoiding certain activities all together?
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  • Do you experience frequent muscle pain or tension, or regular headaches?
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  • Do you often feel like things are out of control?
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  • Do you have a strong need to be in control, organised, and on top of things all the time, to a point in which you feel exhausted and unable to relax?
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  • Do people often say, "You're way too hard on yourself"?
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  • Do you ever consider suicide?
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  • Do you recognize a pattern of self-sabotage in your relationships or work life?
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  • Do you allow opportunities to slip by because of a fear of failure, success, or responsibility?
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  • Do you frequently put other people's wants and needs before your own, even when you really don't want to (sometimes referred to as people-pleasing)?
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  • Do you tend to have a fairly low opinion of yourself ? Do you often see others as better than you?
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  • Do you frequently put yourself down or beat yourself up?
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  • Do you experience bouts of strong anxiety or panic attacks?
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  • Are you experiencing sexual problems such as Erectile Dysfunction, Premature Ejaculation, or Vaginismus (pain during intercourse)?
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  • Do you find that impulsiveness or compulsivity gets you into bother sometimes?
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  • Do you often feel a strong need to 'prove yourself' or 'be the best'?
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  • Have you ever experienced a major trauma such as an assault, sexual abuse, or road accident that still affects you?
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  • Do you have a strong negative or overwhelming reaction to tests or exams, such as a driving test?
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  • Do you ever feel like you're just unlucky in life?
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  • Do you have difficulty relaxing or letting go?
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If you answered 'Yes' to one or more of the questions above, allow me to reassure you that help is at hand. Many people report that they noticed things about themselves that they didn't even realise therapy could help with! If you want to find out more, head over to the About Seb page or get in touch to book your FREE initial consultation.

I cannot tell you how much this experience has benefited my life. If you have a problem that you are battling with, I urge you to get in touch with Seb as soon as you can. He's a really sound guy - easy to get on with. A great person to help you resolve life's challenges.

 

P.C. - Insomnia

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